My body betrays me at times. It’s an uncontrollable response that I can’t always hide – especially from my husband who knows me way too well.
I recently watched a few movies that led to some extra fun time in the bedroom – in large part because I couldn’t control my response to what I was seeing.
First, I watched 365 Days. Had to stop just after the airplane scene and get some special attention from my husband so that I could focus on the movie. We actually ended up having to stop again later in the film. If you’ve seen it, you will likely know where I mean.
That movie might not have been much more than thinly veiled porn, but it was effective.
I also watched the entire 50 Shades of Grey trilogy. I haven’t – and won’t – read the books, but I actually liked the movies enough to engage with them. They didn’t flip my switch the way 365 did, but I ended up liking the development of the character of Christian Grey a lot more than I thought I would. However, there was no need to stop during those movies, although I did get a great spanking after one of them.
But 365 Days – that first blow job scene in the plane – triggered an immediate response in me. My body reacted. I had no control. Kind of like when certain people send me audio recordings of their voices (you know who you are).
Thinking about this body response – a response that happens really without any ability to control it, I remembered that, at the beginning of the year, I asked the ladies of Naughty Twitter (my favorite damn ladies in the whole world, by the way), a question about being turned on by a conversation and how it affected them.
(Men, good conversation is very sexy!)
The answers were fascinating and so much fun to read – such a turn on, too!
It’s a unique experience for each woman…
A “hot heat wave” or a “tightening of the abdomen” or a “tingling sensation” is the first physical response for some women. For others, like the exquisite RedHotMomma, it’s something we all want…
Some women are slow burns, others are flash floods – but it’s such a fun thing to explore and describe.
For me, it starts with a quivery sensation all around my clit. Then, I get wet. And as I get hornier, my clit seems to swell/harden slightly. Final stage is an ache inside that makes me desperate for relief. Now sometimes something hits me and I skip straight to the final stage and the rest catch up. But when I’m there, that’s when I’m weak and willing. (Like hearing a few seconds of audio from the *right* voice or accent).
Ladies, I’d love to hear from more of you about how your body “turns on.”
Feel free to comment below, or add your response on Twitter
My next question to these ladies will be what turns them on that causes this response. In the mean time, I’m going to keep watching naughty films – for research!